Of Angels and Seagulls: You love, you learn

A few days ago, we (my boyfriend and I) had a misunderstanding that sprung out from our simple actions we never thought meant so much to us. We talked about it this evening and finally resolved it.

I realized a lot from this simple fight. One of those was that how simple things can create an unimaginable aftermath and how not talking it over can lead to more complication. I am not so good with talking it over with someone to resolve a conflict. I would always opt to throw a cold treatment towards that person, instead. I thought that there is always no need to explain why I end up feeling bad, or what someone did that I did not like. Certainly, I know that my thoughts and actions are wrong towards resolving a conflict. I do think that without proper communication, nothing can help us to make people understand us, our actions and feelings.

Of course, how you would come up with a resolution still depends on you, on the situation, or on the person you have conflict with. That leads me to thinking that in order for other people to understand us more, we must make our fears and the things that hurt us, known. We have to make them known so that we can let go.

There is always no easy way to face our problems, but talking will help, communicating is better. And if you really want to make something right, you have to act on it, not sleep through it. For always, there are plenty of life's lessons in store for us.

I found a note from a blog and I think it is true. Part of loving is learning to let go, so that we can love more.